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Coming Autumn 2025: Staying Sane in Family Law

A Survival Guide for Lawyers Working in the Most Emotionally Charged Practice Area

Our founder, Annmarie’s debut book, Staying Sane in Family Law, is set for release on 30 September 2025 published by Bath Publishing. It’s a deeply practical and refreshingly honest guide for anyone in the family law world on how to navigate the emotional intensity of practice (with a big dollop of humour!). Family law asks a lot of lawyers - compassion, clarity, resilience, emotional control, and mental stamina. Burnout, vicarious trauma and overwhelm are often part of the job. This book helps you stay steady, human, and effective in the middle of it all. Inside, she shares:

  • Tools to protect your mental health
  • Strategies for building emotional resilience
  • Ways to keep boundaries with difficult or distressed clients
  • Real-world stories from the frontline (Annmarie's included)

Whether you’re just starting out or have decades of experience, this book will help you not just survive, but thrive in family law. Click here to come to a seminar (and get a free book!) - Attend the seminar
Click here to buy the book - Buy the book

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Summer Reads for the Psychologically Curious . . .

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With the launch of Annmarie Carvalho's book "Staying Sane In Family Law", reading is the subject of this post today!

Whether you have already been away, are having a staycation or are just making the most of this lovely weather, we wanted to share some book recommendations that have a psychological slant and that some of our team at TCC have enjoyed this Summer:

The Well-Gardened Mind by Sue Stuart-Smith

The Well-Gardened Mind is a compassionate exploration of how gardening can restore mental well-being, blending neuroscience, psychoanalysis, history, and personal stories to show the profound connection between nature and the human psyche. Drawing on her psychiatric expertise and her own life, Stuart-Smith illustrates how tending the soil can help people process trauma, overcome depression, and reconnect with themselves and others. What stands out most to readers is the book’s seamless weaving of science and storytelling; its ability to be both intellectually rigorous and deeply moving, leaving them with the sense that nurturing a garden is also an act of nurturing the self.

What Got You Here, Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There is a sharp, practical guide for successful professionals who find themselves stuck despite past achievements. Goldsmith identifies subtle but damaging habits like the need to win every argument, failure to listen, or withholding praise that often derail leaders at the top. Through clear anecdotes, behavioural psychology insights, and actionable steps, he shows how unlearning these behaviors can unlock the next level of success. What makes the book stand out is its uncomfortable but liberating message: the skills and attitudes that brought you success so far may be exactly what’s holding you back now and the only way forward is to change yourself first.

Please share with us any of your own "good reads" this summer that have a psychological/behavioural slant . . .

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