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Burnout is a workplace-driven condition caused by chronic, unmanaged stress. Legal work creates a high-risk environment due to workload, emotional labour, long hours, limited autonomy, and entrenched cultural pressures. Here, we go deeper into occupational burnout.
Asked to name a high-stress job, a lot of people will jump to the obvious: surgeon, firefighter, lawyer. These are some of the pillar professions in our community on which people’s lives depend; there’s no surprise they’re so high-stakes. When day-to-day decisions can significantly impact someone else’s wellbeing, you can’t have an ‘off-day’. Outside of client responsibility, these jobs are often surrounded by a workplace culture that rewards overworking, where taking steps back to manage mental health can be seen as a sign of weakness.
Careers that carry such great responsibility take a serious toll on those they’re attached to. Over time, energy levels, empathy, and mental capacity can drain due to occupational burnout. This can have a serious impact on the quality of work, which not only puts workers at risk but also clients, teammates, and even loved ones at home. Let’s look at occupational burnout more closely and why legal professionals are at risk.
Burnout, as defined in the WHO ICD-11, is a workplace-specific syndrome arising from chronic, unmanaged stress. It presents through three core dimensions. Emotional exhaustion is characterised by a depletion of energy, irritability, and disrupted sleep. Depersonalisation or cynicism reflects emotional withdrawal from work, colleagues, or clients, often as a protective response. Reduced professional efficacy appears as declining confidence, impaired focus, and a sense of diminished accomplishment.
It is considered occupational because its causes and expressions are directly tied to the demands, structures, and pressures of the working environment, rather than personal life stressors.
Unlike short-term stress, which is uncomfortable but temporary and recoverable with rest, burnout develops cumulatively. It is the product of sustained overload, high demand, and insufficient recovery time: all pressures that are common in the legal profession, where heavy caseloads, client expectations, and long hours are routine. Because burnout develops gradually, many lawyers adapt to escalating pressure without recognising the toll. This slow desensitisation means the syndrome often becomes entrenched before it is noticed or addressed.
Certain professions are more vulnerable to burnout when the demands of the role consistently outstrip the individual’s capacity to recover. High-intensity environments, emotional labour, and limited autonomy all increase risk.
Common features of burnout-prone professions include:
Healthcare, safeguarding, finance, and emergency services are all affected by this, where high-functioning burnout slowly erodes wellbeing. But we’re going to talk about one in particular: legal.
Law is a clear example of this risk profile. Legal professionals face heavy caseloads, tight deadlines, constant availability demands, and emotionally charged client interactions, all of which create chronic stress conditions linked to burnout.

Burnout is driven by a combination of structural, cultural and psychological pressures that accumulate over time. The work is high stakes, demanding, and often emotionally charged, and many lawyers operate with limited recovery or support. These conditions mirror the chronic stress patterns seen across other high-pressure industries, but the legal sector presents a particularly concentrated risk profile, reinforced by long hours, punctuated by client demanding expectations.
Let’s break down what’s happening in legal firms right now that contributes to the problem of burnout.
67% of lawyers report working over 40 hours per week, and nearly 25% work more than 51 hours per week.
Legal workloads are consistently heavy, with many lawyers working evenings and weekends to keep up. Billable-hour targets intensify pressure by prioritising volume over wellbeing. Chronic sleep deprivation is common, where sleep is often sacrificed to gain extra hours. Partial or full blown insomnia becomes a way of life.
“You're not broken. But you are wounded. Your brain is telling you that it will not help you keep working this hard / ignoring the pain. Anything that will help improve your health and happiness level will help. If you keep just trying to tough it out without making improvements, your brain will make it harder and harder to do your work, and it will be a downward spiral until you have to quit or get fired.”
The pace of legal work is unrelenting: tight deadlines, high caseloads and constant competition shape daily experience. Younger lawyers tend to face the greatest intensity and the least control over their work. Continuous multitasking can lead to cognitive fatigue and limit opportunities for meaningful rest.
Overwork is widely normalised in the profession, where exhaustion is often interpreted as commitment. Many lawyers fear that raising concerns about stress will be perceived as a sign of weakness. Half avoid disclosing mental-health struggles due to stigma, despite high rates of distress across the sector.
“I’m in house and the volume is miserable. I'm viewed as a bottleneck and a box checker. I spend a big chunk of my time swatting away status update requests. Doing even the bare minimum on a single contract is hard bc I get escalated on for “standing in the way of revenue.”
Lawyers often have limited control over deadlines, client crises or the direction of cases. In-house counsel may have unclear mandates or be required to take responsibility without corresponding authority, which can add to stress and role conflict.
Remote work and digital access have deepened expectations of constant availability, where the absence of clear boundaries makes recovery time difficult. Studies show that emailing and professional smartphone use outside working hours are pervasive and blur the division between work and private life, which is detrimental to wellbeing and job satisfaction. Employees who routinely check emails after hours experience more pressure and less ability to recover, supporting the need for a "right to disconnect".
“But there is reason lawyers are compensated well. Because all we do is deal with problems. It is a generally nasty environment. Especially when it is day-in day-out. I wish we could all be nicer to each other.”
Much legal work involves managing conflict, distress, trauma, or risk on behalf of clients. Family, criminal, immigration and clinical negligence practitioners are particularly exposed to emotionally demanding material. In-house roles carry additional ethical and relational pressures that are rarely openly acknowledged.
“It can be hard for partners at your current firm to view you as anything other than the associate who is always available. In a new gig you have the chance to say, "I take 1.5 hours to workout every morning so am unlikely to respond to anything that is not an emergency during this time." It's a little easier to define yourself as an associate with a lot to offer, but who isn't necessarily going to respond to an email within 5 minutes whenever you send it.”
Too few legal supervisors have received formal leadership training, despite their significant influence on workload, expectations, and psychological safety. Poor communication, limited recognition and inconsistent management practices can significantly heighten stress.
Digital workplace technologies have created a "connectivity paradox" for lawyers: while they offer flexibility, they also elevate expectations for responsiveness outside working hours. This has led to "digital presenteeism," where lawyers feel pressure to be constantly connected, reinforcing ultralong working hours and making it harder to disconnect and recover.
“I’ve been a public interest lawyer for 11 years and still make teacher money. People think I make $150-300 when I actually make $75. I'd be less burned out talking to everyone about the worst thing that ever happened to them if I wasn’t constantly wondering when I’ll need to drive Uber to make ends meet.”
Economic pressures can also contribute to burnout, where professionals struggle to meet the breadline during the cost-of-living crisis.

Burnout develops when the body’s stress response remains activated for long periods without adequate recovery. Biologically, the nervous system stays in a heightened “threat” state, keeping cortisol and adrenaline elevated for far longer than they are designed to be. Chemically, this disrupts sleep, mood regulation, concentration and digestion. Physically, chronic muscle tension, fatigue and pain accumulate as the body tries to compensate for ongoing overload. Psychologically, the brain shifts into a state of conservation, reducing motivation, emotional capacity, and cognitive clarity. Over time, these systems interact, producing the emotional exhaustion, cynicism and reduced efficacy recognised as occupational burnout.
| Domain | Common Manifestations | How to Spot It (In Self or Others) |
| Physical | • Persistent fatigue • Headaches • Muscle tension • Disrupted or insufficient sleep • Digestive issues | • Feeling tired despite rest • Frequent minor illnesses • Dependence on caffeine to function • Colleagues appearing run-down or often unwell |
| Emotional | • Anxiety • Irritability • Low mood or hopelessness • Emotional numbness • Detachment from work or clients | • Feeling unusually reactive or flat • Dreading routine tasks • Reduced empathy or emotional withdrawal • Colleagues becoming withdrawn or unusually sensitive |
| Behavioural | • Mistakes and reduced accuracy • Absenteeism or avoidance • Social withdrawal • Procrastination • Increased use of alcohol or other substances | • Missed deadlines • Avoiding communication • Cancelling plans frequently • Escalating reliance on alcohol • Colleagues disengaging or isolating themselves |
| Cognitive | • Poor concentration • Indecision • Focus lapses • Self-criticism or perfectionism intensifying • Demotivation or reduced sense of accomplishment | • Difficulty prioritising • Rereading the same text repeatedly • Second-guessing decisions • Negative self-talk becoming more frequent • Colleagues appearing overwhelmed or unfocused |
Professionals struggling with burnout are often left to their own devices, but firms and employers have a significant role in the solution, and resolving burnout is in their greater interest, too, far beyond the wellbeing of their workforce. Burnout among lawyers imposes high economic and organisational costs on law firms, including direct financial losses, reduced productivity, increased turnover, and negative impacts on firm culture and client service.
Here’s how burnout impacts firms.
It’s undeniable that burnout is an industry standard, but it doesn’t have to be. The resolution lies in a team effort among employers, professional individuals, and legal bodies to bring burnout into the open and address the culture that has been built around it.
Across the legal sector, there are encouraging signs that wellbeing is becoming integral to professional practice. More firms are adopting structured frameworks, such as the Mindful Business Charter, which embeds healthier expectations around communication, availability, and autonomy. The question is though, do firms stick to it?
Evidence consistently shows that cultures which value professionalism, skill and humanity outperform those driven by constant availability. Specialist external support, including therapy, supervision, coaching, and organisational consultancy, is an easy route to sustaining healthy, high-performing teams. Working with a specialist in legal-specific mental health means having an expert in your corner to train your leadership, offer real support, and implement practices that prevent burnout from taking hold.
Talk to TCC if this sounds like the solution for you. We’re a team of mental health professionals with legal backgrounds, so we understand your world and the best ways to effect change.